You need to go read the mantis subsection on reefcentral.
Some misinformation in this thread.
If you want a pea****, you want it's own tank. They are messy easters so extra water volume is good + they will roam. Either a 30g or 40breeder are ideal for a pea****. If you decide you want a spearer like a zebra, you start wanting to think about more column tanks as those require a deep sand bed to make their burrows. Even a pea**** will burrow, but most will submerge or half submerge and make their own pvc tunnels that works for them just as well.
You don't need acrylic. Put a huge pea**** in a 5g or under *maybe* it would happen. Mine in a 30g temporarily smacked the same spot endlessly on bare glass for weeks (on the bottom) with no issues. Read on RC and youll see many say the same. There is no actual confirmed story of it happening, more urban legend. I would definately put pea**** alone or with $5 fish you dont care if get caught. Mine lived with 4-5 different damsels. He ate the blue ones, but left 3 stripe and others alone. Sold him when I decided I wanted less tanks to maintain. Someone here on the forum has him, forget who. (Muscle car avatar)
The other species are cool too. I've had my wennerae for close to 2 years. He lived in my mixed reef 55, 210, and now 9g nano.
As far as their aggression, they wont tolerate stuff in their area. My little one hit me messing w/ coral. (Small so no dmg). They wont predate on snail/crabs if they are well fed enough. It's cute watching the little one grab and struggle to force shrimp off a stick and snap it to break it free. The nice thing about big pea**** is you can feed it a mixture of just human seafood. Shrimp, scallop, whatever is meaty. The little ones you have to worry more about buying packs of krill and breaking off one at a time to feed them. Carefull of overfeeding as theyll let the spare bits just lay around and rot. Less a problem in a reef, but a sole inhabitant pea**** is how you get fowl water.
My vote would be a small species in one of the various newer (or older) nice nano's out there. You can actually mix in coral and other critters and still get to observe him. My wennera's home is in some barnacles. Pea**** does have the huge killer wow factor (can feed them crawfish occasionally), but you need a bigger solo setup, low lighting (this species more sensitive to light if water is bad), and if they do get ya definately can do damage. (Mine was peacefull and I could touch but in my new house would chase my hand at all costs and breach the surface of the water.)
(970 391 0579, text me and I can text back of my current setup as an example if you dont find one of many online. Have him w/ a pseudochromis and bangai cardinal, few hermits/snails and coral. Might even be open to selling as my hands are still full w/ new house/dogs/monitors.)