Change in my life

Bajamike

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#1
So I am an open book about things and I will be about this change as well.

My wife and I have decided that our life's are on two different paths. Long story kept short. I have a dream of my life in Mexico and she does not have the same dream. We have talked and it is unfair to each other. It is a friendly separation and we will remain living with each other for a little bit.

But what this means for me is I have to separate from the hobby as well. This means that starting this weekend I am going to part out my tanks. I will not hold. Stuff I will not sell before I make my part out post. I also ask that if you come over to buy stuff please out of respect do ask about my separation.

So please don't push me on these topics but I thought that is was fair that I at least let people know why. Thank you to all the kind people I have met I'll have a corona waiting for you if you ever come see my new fish tank (aka the sea of Cortez)
 

cdrewferd

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#2
Wow Mike. Sorry to hear, but glad it's on friendly terms. Also sorry you have to part out the tanks, but your dream is more important than a few tanks.


Drew

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CRW Reef

Blue Whale
M.A.S.C Club Member
ex-officio
#8
Well my friend, you know what my feelings are. I will miss your local friendship and guidance greatly, but I am super excited about your upcoming new life event!

You will certainly be missed here locally in the community but I am certain and trust we might still see you on here occasionally teasing us with awesome pics of all aspects of your new world, creating temptations for all to join you.

I know you aren't leaving tomorrow and I will talk to you a hundred times in the near future, but thank you for your friendship and for helping/being an extremely helpful, kind, caring and benefit to our community! You will def be missed around here thats for sure!
 

Ghosty

Butterfly Fish
#10
That's very man of you to be that open, thanks for sharing. Hope for the best for both of you, and glad it was on friendly terms. I'm sure Mexico will be an adventure, especially for an ocean lover! Good luck buddy...
 

ReefCheif

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
Platinum Sponsor
#11
Hey Mike, dont really want to touch on your situation, but I can relate, Im going through a similiar situation with my girlfriend and has alsol had me thinking of downsizing my set up, I hope everyhitng works out for you and best of luck. Ill take you up on that corona next time Im in Mexico.
 

jahmic

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#13
What can I say man...at the very least, the fact that you are taking huge steps toward making that dream a reality might inspire me to do the same one day. From that convo we had last month I know I can definitely relate...

Best of luck south of the border; hopefully we can keep in touch as I know I'll be traveling again within the next couple years.
 

Dbarnes

Nurse Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#16
majicmike;197521 said:
Thank you all and derrick I haven't forgot about you I need to square that up with you
Ill come get it in mexico lol... no worries man put to the dream fund

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MartinsReef

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#18
I DON'T LIKE IT ONE BIT! But I knew from day one that you were going to move to Mexico but as I told you before true friends don't stop being friends due to location. Thanks for being a good friend bro!

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Bajamike

Reef Shark
M.A.S.C Club Member
#19
Thank you all! I can't tell you how much it means to me. This is the turning point in my life that I have been waiting for. Daughter is in college and no debit. Time for a new adventure for sure!
 

303travism

Dolphin
M.A.S.C Club Member
#20
What's your PayPal Mike I'll send you some beer money for when I come out there!!!
 
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