Here's my $.02... I grew up loving the ocean, living in CA and FL, and got a full scholarship to Eckerd College in St. Petersburg FL. I was planning to do Marine Biology. You could check the program there.
I declined and got a degree in business somewhere else. I don't look back and wonder if I made a mistake, but can say that my career has been good fit for me and my lifestyle. I did pay big student loans for 10 years and never stopped dreaming about the ocean, but have had a career that has funded my life and building a family. I'm not saying I don't have money problems (haha).
You need to make sure you are 100% committed to the lifestyle that your career pursuit will fund. Career unhappiness and regret is one of the biggest plagues of life...and when debt accompanies it now or down the road, it is a much bigger burden. I have a doctor friend who pulls in 400K a year that hates his job and says he thinks about quitting all the time. So money won't buy happiness, but it at least gives some cushion in life for you to change or get through hard times. You don't have to be a doctor to have that, but some career paths will leave you debt laden and/or trapped for life. So choose wisely, and it is very hard to undo your choice (and sometimes even harder to accept that it can't be undone). If there's any doubt, then be practical before you dream. Get a degree that will fund the lifestyle you think you can accept, then down the road (with patience) you can either fund a hobby or a career change to follow your dream.
That is why it is also good to start small/slow, such as at a community college, especially if you don't have good grades/test scores. Don't believe the hype about needing to find yourself, follow academic prestige and name-brand university recognition, etc. You are incredibly fortunate to have such a great mom who has planned this for you. Now surprise her by being practical with this incredible gift built on blood/sweat/tears that she has presented you.
Being practical is not how Americans are told to live, granted. We are told to be bold, dream and act and live big.Turn on the TV and watch American Idol where people's belief that they can attain stardom is confirmed...but as we know, for every one person that makes it in Hollywood there are millions (including many homeless) that will live and die with the hope that one day they will be a star and never will. Same applies to many fields, science...art...business... In other words, let this hobby show how destructive/disheartening/expensive the "be bold" approach can be on a micro level.
Sorry I'll shut up, that was a hell of a soapbox speech...
I declined and got a degree in business somewhere else. I don't look back and wonder if I made a mistake, but can say that my career has been good fit for me and my lifestyle. I did pay big student loans for 10 years and never stopped dreaming about the ocean, but have had a career that has funded my life and building a family. I'm not saying I don't have money problems (haha).
You need to make sure you are 100% committed to the lifestyle that your career pursuit will fund. Career unhappiness and regret is one of the biggest plagues of life...and when debt accompanies it now or down the road, it is a much bigger burden. I have a doctor friend who pulls in 400K a year that hates his job and says he thinks about quitting all the time. So money won't buy happiness, but it at least gives some cushion in life for you to change or get through hard times. You don't have to be a doctor to have that, but some career paths will leave you debt laden and/or trapped for life. So choose wisely, and it is very hard to undo your choice (and sometimes even harder to accept that it can't be undone). If there's any doubt, then be practical before you dream. Get a degree that will fund the lifestyle you think you can accept, then down the road (with patience) you can either fund a hobby or a career change to follow your dream.
That is why it is also good to start small/slow, such as at a community college, especially if you don't have good grades/test scores. Don't believe the hype about needing to find yourself, follow academic prestige and name-brand university recognition, etc. You are incredibly fortunate to have such a great mom who has planned this for you. Now surprise her by being practical with this incredible gift built on blood/sweat/tears that she has presented you.
Being practical is not how Americans are told to live, granted. We are told to be bold, dream and act and live big.Turn on the TV and watch American Idol where people's belief that they can attain stardom is confirmed...but as we know, for every one person that makes it in Hollywood there are millions (including many homeless) that will live and die with the hope that one day they will be a star and never will. Same applies to many fields, science...art...business... In other words, let this hobby show how destructive/disheartening/expensive the "be bold" approach can be on a micro level.
Sorry I'll shut up, that was a hell of a soapbox speech...