Wow Andrew, just read this post and I am truly sorry about your loss. Keep your chin up and know that the land will return. You have your health and family and the is the most important thing.
I am glad your home was there for you unharmed. It is understandable that you would need to change your focus at this time but we will be here for you when you're ready to rejoin.
We are so sorry, please let us know if we can help out at all. if you can give me details on your tanks and stuff i can snoop around and see if i can help you sell them. we will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers. please keep in touch